30%
of U.S. adults have used a dating site or app.
Source: Pew Research Center, 2023, February 2, 2023U.S. online dating data
Usage, intentions, and safety data for adults in the United States, gathered here with direct source links for easy reference.
At a glance
Online dating means different things to different people. The figures below show who uses dating platforms, what people say they are looking for, and why privacy and good judgment still matter.
30%
of U.S. adults have used a dating site or app.
Source: Pew Research Center, 2023, February 2, 202353%
of adults ages 18 to 29 have used online dating.
Source: Pew Research Center, 2023, February 2, 202337%
of adults ages 30 to 49 have used online dating.
Source: Pew Research Center, 2023, February 2, 202320%
of adults ages 50 to 64 have used online dating.
Source: Pew Research Center, 2023, February 2, 202313%
of adults age 65 and older have used online dating.
Source: Pew Research Center, 2023, February 2, 202344%
of current or recent online daters say a major reason for using platforms is meeting a long-term partner.
Source: Pew Research Center, 2023, February 2, 202340%
of current or recent online daters say a major reason for using platforms is casual dating.
Source: Pew Research Center, 2023, February 2, 202310%
of partnered adults say they met their current spouse or partner through a dating site or app.
Source: Pew Research Center, 2023, February 2, 2023$1.3B
was reported lost to romance scams in the United States in 2022.
Source: Federal Trade Commission, 2023, February 9, 2023$4,400
was the median reported loss from romance scams in the United States in 2022.
Source: Federal Trade Commission, 2023, February 9, 2023$672M
in losses was reported to the FBI for confidence and romance fraud in 2024.
Source: FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center, 2024, 2024 annual report17,910
confidence and romance fraud complaints were reported to the FBI in 2024.
Source: FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center, 2024, 2024 annual reportWhat the numbers suggest
That is why clear profiles, deliberate sharing, and respectful conversation matter. Members can set their own pace, keep selected media private, and decide what feels right as a conversation develops.
Sources and methodology
This page uses the most recent relevant figures available from the listed public sources. Each statistic links directly to the source that reported it. Figures are presented as reported, and source dates are shown with every statistic.
Adult Lounge. “Online Dating Statistics: Usage, Safety and Scam Awareness.” Updated September 21, 2026. https://adultloungeclub.com/statistics